We like what Albert Einstein had to say about life: "There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
If you think about it, you are blessed to be born on this beautiful blue planet as a human being. According to the author of Tao of Dating Ali Benazir, the probability of your existence is 1 in 102,685,000
Isn't that an incredible miracle? You are in this world for a purpose. You have the ability to make this life good. Here are 7 unbeatable ways to make life good.
1: Forgive and Move On
This may not be as hard as it sounds. If you think about it, forgiveness is all about finding happiness for yourself. Instead of focusing on the whys and the ' how-could-she's' give others the benefit of doubt. Let go of dark thoughts, and give yourself a chance to heal. Move on to a better life, without carrying the baggage of anger, hatred or jealousy.
2: Learn to Love Unconditionally
We all give love to receive love. How about just giving love, without expecting any in return? Love, when it takes a selfish turn becomes possessive, greedy, and obstinate. When you love unconditionally, you go with the belief that you did not expect to be loved in return. For instance, your pet loves you unconditionally. A mother loves her child unconditionally. If you can master the art of loving unconditionally, you can never get hurt.
3: Give up Bad Habits
Easier said than done. But think of how good your life can be if you could drop your bad habits. Some bad habits such as smoking, excessive drinking, or doing drugs are harmful to your health. Other bad habits such as lying, cheating, or speaking ill of others can make you a social menace. Have your friends and loved ones help you to give up your bad habits.
4: Be Proud of Who You Are
You are what you think you are. So wouldn't it be wonderful if you could also be proud of who you are? Don't underestimate or devalue yourself. Sometimes, people may treat you unfairly or fail to notice your contribution to work. It is their loss that they have failed to understand you. Be proud of what you do and who you are. Life is good, no matter where you come from.
5: Be Less Judgmental
Don't point fingers at others. Being judgmental is also another way of being prejudiced. All kinds of discrimination including racism, sexism, and gender bias stem from being judgmental. Give up your prejudices about others, and be more accepting of others. As it is said in the Bible: "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you."
6: Fight Your Fears
Fears are your weaknesses. Overcoming fears take a lot of tenacity. But once you conquer your fears, you can conquer the world. Let go of your comfort zone and explore beyond your realm of joy. Push yourself to accomplish new highs by letting go of your fears. Talk to yourself and control your mind. Life is beautiful at the other end of the dark tunnel.
7: Keep Learning and Growing
To stop growing is as good as dead. Don't stop learning. Share your knowledge, wisdom, and insights with others. Learn from everybody's views. Accept knowledge without prejudice or arrogance. Keep improving your skills, and build a wealth of knowledge within you.
Here are 7 beautiful quotes that remind you that life is good. Read these quotes about good life and adopt them as your daily mantra. Share these quotes with others and give inspiration to your family.
The world of achievement has always belonged to the optimist.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
There are no days in life so memorable as those which vibrated to some stroke of the imagination.
The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction, not a destination.
There are two educations. One should teach us how to make a living and the other how to live.
There are two great days in a person's life - the day we are born and the day we discover why.
There is no pillow so soft as a clear conscience.
Annie Dillard, The Writing Life
There is no shortage of good days. It is good lives that are hard to come by.